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		<title>What would you do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 15:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I saw a snippet of a thus-titled show recently in which the producers set up situations in which someone is doing something rude in public and among strangers and the object is to see who jumps in. What is unclear to me, however, is if the behavior of the antagonist is perceived as not only [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4155&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/2928402-2928402-where-to-go-when-the-going-is-hard.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4162" style="margin:5px;" title="2928402-2928402-where-to-go-when-the-going-is-hard" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/2928402-2928402-where-to-go-when-the-going-is-hard.jpg?w=300&#038;h=206" alt="" width="300" height="206" /></a>I saw a snippet of a thus-titled show recently in which the producers set up situations in which someone is doing something rude in public and among strangers and the object is to see who jumps in. What is unclear to me, however, is if the behavior of the antagonist is perceived as not only rude, but also as self-effacing, for aren&#8217;t people who are behaving in an undeniably rude manner also embarrassing themselves? It is further unclear whether or not those who do jump in are perceived as helpful in that manner, as saving not only the object of the rudeness (in the cases where one exists) but also saving the person from snap judgements such as &#8216;rude&#8217;, or &#8216;mean&#8217;.</p>
<p>And of course these are complete strangers so, what then, of situations in which someone you know, and perhaps even care about, is behaving in a manner which is widely deemed as negative or humiliating? It is then good to jump in or does that label you a busybody? Are friends and loved ones in any way obligated to try to somehow, some way, save that person from themselves, from the repercussions of stumbling around a party or offending people with callous actions and/or remarks or behaving in any one of many socially offensive behaviors? Is that caring? Or is that also rude? Is one&#8217;s job in such situations to look the other way, or to step in somehow &#8212; at the moment, after the moment, in anticipation of an upcoming moment? For what does it mean in terms of implied obligatory response in situations where one suffers from second-hand embarrassment due to the actions of another, as exacerbated by side-eye glances and slightly arched eyebrows?</p>
<p>To jump in at any of those past, present or future moments can be a lose-lose proposition in that the self-appointed &#8216;hero&#8217; can be perceived as an annoyance, groaned about in private, one who fails to mind their own business, or worse, but yet, in some situations the reverse is a possible outcome such as an alcohol-related arrest or much much worse.</p>
<p><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/2847026-2847026-best-friends.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4163" style="margin:5px;" title="2847026-2847026-best-friends" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/2847026-2847026-best-friends.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a>I&#8217;d like to see a show about that, in which group social interactions are set up in order to see what unfolds; in which perhaps there is money, well-being, safety, respect of one&#8217;s peers, or social-standing, in the position to be gained or lost, at stake. Because quite honestly, in such situations I know what I would do (which would be directly dependent on whether or not this is someone I care about, or even love, or merely worry for), but I don&#8217;t exactly know what is the &#8216;right&#8217; thing to do. Cameras or not, life is a stage of sorts and judgment can be swift and difficult to alter. One thing I do know is that if you care enough to act you are absolutely at risk and so you best have the stomach for gambling.</p>
<p>And, what would you want others to do for you in such situations? What is the truly kind thing to do and is the kind thing also the socially acceptable thing to do? Is it better to mind your own business and just avoid such situations in the future? I really want to know.</p>
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		<title>SHERYL JAFFE: CORN AND THE CONNECTICUT RIVER: A PAPER ODYSSEY/ART INSTALLATION</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 13:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Corn and the Connecticut River: A Paper Odyssey/Installation by Sheryl Jaffe @ The Corn Barn at Porter-Phelps-Huntington Museum August 7 &#8211; Oct 15 Opening Reception: August 7, 3:00-5:00 PM The prevalent medium in this installation, Corn, or Maize, is universally translated in most Native American languages as &#8220;That Which Sustains Us&#8221;, by which we may [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4145&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Corn and the Connecticut River:  A Paper Odyssey/Installation by Sheryl Jaffe<br />
@ The Corn Barn at Porter-Phelps-Huntington Museum<br />
August 7 &#8211; Oct 15<br />
Opening Reception:  August 7, 3:00-5:00 PM</strong></p>
<p>The prevalent medium in this installation, Corn, or Maize, is universally translated in most Native American languages as &#8220;That Which Sustains Us&#8221;, by which we may assume that corn may also act as metaphor, yet more than metaphor, as it has, and does, sustain legions of people and cultures in myriad ways. </p>
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<p>As an artist working in paper, I find myself intrigued and motivated by this seemingly ubiquitous plant which grows to the height of a person, exhibits a peculiar beauty at each and every stage of growth and decay, and can be prepared as sustenance in unique and  various ways.  Its very fibers appear to simultaneously absorb and reflect light in ways both unique and astonishing, by way of its individual parts, which span from the filmy and translucent to the shiny and curved, all while displaying a grid-like geometry, as dependent upon perspective.  While sunlight works its magic sustaining the plant during its period of growth, its positioning will affect the resulting paper, once brilliant, now sinister, as it undergoes the inevitability of its lifespan, a slow dance with aging and, inevitably, death. </p>
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<p>Five years ago, upon being made a generous offering of corn from my neighbors’ garden, I found myself preferring the husks, returning as if called, to reflect upon the leaves, and ultimately asking for the stalks, for all that they promised to me by way of their potential, then cooking, cutting, and beating all these fibers into pulp for paper &#8212; paper for sculpture, clothing, envelopes, and artwork.</p>
<p>Upon stepping outside on a cloying, damp, humid day two years past whilst creating linen and mulberry papers, my vision immediately changed, became abstract, and my glasses fogged up in a flash. In this moist blur, I had a sense of the birds as fish, of my self and my environment as being under water, and of the air as a dense and thick being.  Reminiscent of standing on a hill in Northampton and imagining Lake Hitchcock, or standing in the Corn Barn at Porter Phelps facing the river and envisioning the seasonal flooding of the fields, picturing the fish, and then the story, the story of this creation, this installation.</p>
<p>During the planning stages of this installation, Susan Lisk, director of the Porter Phelps Huntington Foundation shared with me a story of the Connecticut River flooding the cornfield in the early spring, such that there were dozens of carp somewhat trapped after the waters receded.  She, accompanied by others, trekked down to where they lay imprisoned in an attempt to collect them in corn baskets to then drag or carry them back to the river so they could swim away, freed from their constraints, describing an image I found at once breathtaking and inspiring, for the work I had begun.  For the relationship between corn and the Connecticut River is at once personal, historical, intense, and fascinating, dating back thousands of years. It then occurred to me that if one perceives time as an accordion, folding up on itself, creating threads of contact having more to do with sensory experience, one may well be reminded of other such sensory memories such as listening to a drum or a flute, planting corn kernels or seeds, tasting a cooked ear, smelling catfish frying, or grilling salmon, and thus my vision for this piece took on a more perceptible shape. </p>
<p>It is a long-held Mayan belief that people are made of and from corn. Today there are those whom consider themselves &#8220;people of corn&#8221; across North, Central and South America, because cultural beliefs color both group and individual perception.  An individual’s broader perspective is a critical aspect of comprehension &#8212; of one’s self, one’s life, and all that one perceives.  As such, the works in this exhibit require more than one point of view to fully appreciate the resulting work.  This installation thus invites you to alter your position, perceive that the lighting is altered, take pains to alter it by your physical perspective, allow yourself to make a joyful and perhaps uninhibited sound, return for a fresh viewing on another day, in a different time of day or weather, savoring what you have just read or eaten, and allow yourself to be touched in a unique and personal manner by this work, which was created for such individual experiences of appreciation.  </p>
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		<title>Holyoke Fire, August 2, 2011 4 pm ish</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 20:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Pioneer Women at Jasper rand Art Museum, Opening reception May 7</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As promised, I am plugging an upcoming group show of which I am a part. And I promise to get back to blogging again, soon. With hilarity and run-on sentences. more info (as in text) to come. Click image to make it big and readable.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4060&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As promised, I am plugging an upcoming group show of which I am a part. And I promise to get back to blogging again, soon. With hilarity and run-on sentences. </p>
<p>more info (as in text) to come. </p>
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		<title>My Battle with Groupon</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[UPDATE: So far 3 friends have emailed Groupon on my behalf (I will never forget you, ever EVER, you three&#8221;, so I now have been credited, but for the three who wrote in ONLY. Of the 7 or 8 who told me they signed up by clicking the now-infamous link. The email that tipped it, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4054&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;"><strong>UPDATE</strong>: So far 3 friends have emailed Groupon on my behalf (I will never forget you, ever EVER, you three&#8221;, so I now have been credited, but for the three who wrote in ONLY. Of the 7 or 8 who told me they signed up by clicking the now-infamous link.<br />
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<blockquote><p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">The email that tipped it, went like this&#8230; </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">&#8220;Thank you for your reply ["Support" person at Groupon, who replied to the friend's inquiry]. I am ccing the friend (that&#8217;s me) who referred me to Groupon. She has in fact contacted Groupon directly, but has still not had anything resolved.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">I would ask that if you access her account and do not find such a referral having been processed, that you seriously consider that the link may not work effectively, or that it may be all too easy to get wrong, for those of us who are new to Groupon. I certainly believe that I clicked on the referral link, but since it was not processed, I do wonder if there is a way to miss a step, so as to not complete the referral.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">Other than this situation, I have had a very satisfactory history with Groupon. You folks have a cool thing going, and I do hope you correct what clearly is a serious skip in your system.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">Signed, [One of my pals, who emailed Groupon to try to make it right]</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">But oh, all the lost credits. I worked in the software industry in Boston for 5 years. A lot of coding snafus get past QA. They eventually get rectified, but sometimes only after one person or important client makes a huge fuss, rarely with apology, appeased customers, or even admission that anything was amiss at all, ever. I feel somewhat satisfied. But not. because when a friend got a Groupon email in her account (as described below) yet addressed to me, that, to me, seemed <strong>hard core proof</strong> that our accounts were electronically linked, and that yet I had not been credited. I forwarded that email proof to Groupon about a dozen emails back. It got me nowhere. Nowhere. It took the effort of three pals to email Groupon and fairly demand (their emails varied in wording) that I be credited, and that they <strong>ABSOLUTELY HAD</strong> clicked the link &#8212; from the email I sent them &#8212; to sign up. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffcc99;">So what does that tell me? I am not exactly seeing unicorns and rainbows. Groupon <em>is</em> a for-profit corporation after all.</span>  <span style="color:#ffcc99;">I sorta wish i could take all the emails back, to be totally honest.</span></p>
<p><strong>IT&#8217;S ALL ABOUT THE PRINCIPLE.</strong></p>
<p>I almost never forward emails, as most of you know, but I had heard about this Groupon thing from someone who saw a thing about it on some morning show, so, back in December I signed up.</p>
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<p>I then received a welcome letter saying &#8220;Welcome!&#8221; and all that, and I then signed in and saw this &#8220;</p>
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<h2>Refer Friends and Get $10 Groupon Bucks!</h2>
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<h3>Get $10 in Groupon Bucks when someone you invite gets their first Groupon. There&#8217;s no limit on how much you can earn!&#8221;</h3>
<p>So I sent it to my list. the way it is supposed to work is that you click(ed) on the link in that email from me and like magic the code tells Groupon that i sent you and I get credited when you buy your first Groupon. But, as if I am cursed, a funny thing happened on the way to the forum, so they say, and I never got credited for ANYONE signing up by doing that clickety-click. A lot of you have since told me that you signed up because of that referral, from me to you. But something crazy happened  &#8211; I have never been credited a single credit. Many of those people who signed up because of me have since bought many groupons, but, still not a single credit.</p>
<div id="attachment_4070" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 288px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/ziggy.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4070" title="ziggy" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/ziggy.jpg?w=278&#038;h=300" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Remember this guy? He comes to mind lately.</p></div>
<p>I have been emailing support and they have come back with every manner of excuse and &#8220;reasoning&#8221; why I have not been credited. I signed up with my moringey email address but under the name Mo Gareau, which, as many of you know, is my new last name, though my emails got out as Mo (Ringey) Gareau.</p>
<p>I told a few of my friends that this had happened so they emailed groupon at <strong>support@groupon.com</strong> saying, &#8220;I signed up via the email Mo Ringey Gareau  sent me and have since bought groupons and would like her to be credited&#8221;, but, still not a single credit.</p>
<div id="attachment_4056" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/img_4014.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4056" title="IMG_4014" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/img_4014.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I forget what this picture even is. But, if I get my credits, I promise to get back to writing funny posts again. Promise.</p></div>
<p>So one might think that maybe there was a programming error and that when they clicked through the link on the email I sent them, it did not take and was not logged as a referral from me. A plausible excuse, right? The software industry is the first industry I think of when I think of indutries in which there is no culpability and you can buy a product with glitches yet never get your money bac or get a replacement, yes?</p>
<p><em><strong>BUT THEN</strong></em>, my friend Amy got a funny email from Groupon! She got an email sent to <em>her</em> email address, in <em>her</em> inbox, which said, &#8220;Mo Gareau, here is your daily deal for Springfield, MA&#8221;</p>
<p>AHA!</p>
<div id="attachment_4057" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/img_3986.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4057 " title="IMG_3986" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/img_3986.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I took this picture of the floor in my studio years ago. I like it!</p></div>
<p>So, I sent this email to Groupon and said, &#8220;Look! This is proof that I AM electronically linked, via code and all that, to at least one of the people who signed up for Groupon by clicking through the link in the email I sent out to 100 something people. See!?&#8221;</p>
<p>Still nada. By my estimation I am owed a few credits.</p>
<p>So, if you signed up because of the email I sent to you inviting you (and thus, endorsing) Groupon, please email groupon at <strong>support@groupon.com</strong> with the following:</p>
<p>&#8220;Hi there! I signed up for Groupon by clicking through the link in the referral email Mo Ringey Gareau sent me so, in all fairness, I woudl love it if you would credit her account under moringey[at]gmail[dot]com, as she is my pal and she sent me and I clicked your possibly faulty link.&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_4067" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 230px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/220px-sandra_day_oconnor.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-4067" title="220px-Sandra_Day_O'Connor" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/220px-sandra_day_oconnor.jpg?w=450" alt="My pal, Sandra Day O'Connor"   /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">My pal, Sandra Day O&#039;Connor</p></div>
<p>Thanks. Yes, I am on my soapbox for the first time in years. I have been emailing back and forth with the non-eponymously-named &#8220;Support&#8221; people for weeks. I am not getting anywhere. It&#8217;s not me, it&#8217;s them. All I want is my credits. Is that so much to ask?</p>
<div id="attachment_4058" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/amaryllis.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4058" title="amaryllis" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/amaryllis.jpg?w=300&#038;h=240" alt="" width="300" height="240" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I love flowers. And, honesty. And don&#039;t love unfair and deceptive practices. That&#039;s a real legal term.</p></div>
<p>I figure if I never get the credits, I will start posting some of the hilarious (on my end) email exchanges, along with the non-hilarious replies, from &#8220;support&#8221;. Don&#8217;t worry, they won&#8217;t get you if you reiterate that you signed up because of the email I sent you. After all, all publicity is supposedly good publicity, yes?</p>
<p>And hey, if you haven&#8217;t yet signed up and yet plan to, try putting my name and email address in &#8212; I bet I still don&#8217;t get credited. Like sands through the hourglass, so go the days of my life. I am calling my pal Sandra Day O&#8217;Connor. ;-)</p>
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		<title>You can&#8217;t keep a bad tail down: Cecil tries to take control of his tail</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Apr 2011 15:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[At 2-3 estimated years old, Cecil suddenly discovers that he has this tail thing, and doesn&#8217;t seem to realize that he is the one making it move, and tries to make it cooperate and stop moving. No sound. Well, not really. Any ideas for a good soundtrack? Dazed and Confused? They&#8217;re coming to take me [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4041&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>At 2-3 estimated years old, Cecil suddenly discovers that he has this tail thing, and doesn&#8217;t seem to realize that <em>he </em>is the one making it move, and tries to make it cooperate and stop moving. No sound. Well, not really. Any ideas for a good soundtrack? <em>Dazed and Confused</em>? <em>They&#8217;re coming to take me away, ha ha</em>? Feel free to insert your own background music.</p>
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		<title>Cecil and the toilet</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2011 00:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So today I came home and Cecil immediately ran into the bathroom and started howling. I ran to see if he was locked in, and, forgot the camera! Cecil was sitting on the actual toilet seat looking down past his tummy at the water and howling at it to flush. So I ran and got [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=4010&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>So today I came home and Cecil immediately ran into the bathroom and started howling. I ran to see if he was locked in, and, forgot the camera! Cecil was sitting on the actual toilet seat looking down past his tummy at the water and howling at it to flush. So I ran and got the camera but he had jumped down. He did however pull a new stunt&#8230; (the story of Cecil, after the video)</p>
<div id="attachment_4023" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/mannequin2.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4023 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="mannequin2" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/mannequin2.jpg?w=200" alt="" width="200" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil does not like that mannequin chick, not one bit. he tells her exactly how he feels and it&#039;s LOUD.</p></div>
<p>Cecil has been a stray all his life. He lived in my biological mother&#8217;s back yard in a room at the Inn, at what I call &#8220;Kittywood&#8221;. She made a house for the strays with a little bedroom for each cat, heated by a light bulb and with heavy plastic strips for doors. he was a tough guy and looked like that alley cat tough guy in the old Tom and Jerry cartoons. I was afraid of him and he would swipe at me when I walked out onto the back deck, often getting tangled in my socks.</p>
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<p>More Cecil pics:</p>
<div id="attachment_4015" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/img_7695.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4015 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="IMG_7695" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/img_7695.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Poser!</p></div>
<p>Then he was caught and fixed, which is why one ear is notched &#8212; and he became a nice guy and learned to love attention. he smiles all the time now so he doesn&#8217;t still look like that mean cartoon cat.  ;-)</p>
<p>The Cat Rescue Project snips an ear so others will know the cat has been fixed. Cecil got in a lot of fights. I think he was overcompensating.</p>
<p>Eventually, he SO overcompensated that he started chasing dogs in the neighborhood and picking fights with them. That&#8217;s when they knew they had to find a home for him.</p>
<div id="attachment_4016" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/untitled-figsplayingpoker.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4016 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="Untitled-FigsPlayingPoker" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/untitled-figsplayingpoker.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil eats from a little dish with monkies on it. I am not sure if he notices. </p></div>
<p>When I&#8217;d visit he&#8217;d come running like a dog and, flattered by that, I decided to take him in. He came with his little comforter and some food, tied in bandanna and hung from the end of a stick. He adjusted very quickly.</p>
<div id="attachment_4019" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 332px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_narcissus2.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4019 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="cecil_narcissus2" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_narcissus2.jpg?w=322&#038;h=430" alt="" width="322" height="430" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil examines the Narcissus in the Narcissusarium. </p></div>
<p>The first night he followed me around and inevitably slept on my bed and that was his first time sleeping inside. For the next few days every time I walked in the direction of my room, he&#8217;d run past me and slide to a stop, and then run and jump on the bed and howl for me to go to bed so he could do this new snuggling thing.</p>
<div id="attachment_4020" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_yawn_sm.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4020 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="cecil_Yawn_sm" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_yawn_sm.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil gets ready for bed. </p></div>
<p>For the first few weeks he waited for me to wake up, staring at me intently, and only then would he start his campaign for breakfast. Not any more. I get head-butted starting with the sunrise. I have to close the shades to try to fool him, but he is very smart so he doesn&#8217;t fall for it.  And does he ever have a lot to say about everything, especially the toilet flushing!</p>
<div id="attachment_4021" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_atop_bed_against_wall2_sm.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4021" style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="cecil_atop_bed_against_wall2_sm" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_atop_bed_against_wall2_sm.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil looks good against the red backdrop. he sorta knows it, too. </p></div>
<p>The vet says he is maybe 2-3 years old. He knows a few words and still runs like a dog to greet me.</p>
<div id="attachment_4022" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/p01-16-11_21-07.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4022" title="P01-16-11_21.07" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/p01-16-11_21-07.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">When I am lying down watching Tv Cecil sits on my stomach and stares at me. </p></div>
<p>I want to build him a little stand for his food and water and set it like a table. That would be cute. I would also make him a place-card with his name in calligraphy.</p>
<div id="attachment_4024" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 332px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_brdoor.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4024" style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="cecil_brdoor" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/cecil_brdoor.jpg?w=322&#038;h=430" alt="" width="322" height="430" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil explores his new home on Day 1. </p></div>
<p>He sits on my lap when I type and sometimes rests his head on the keyboard, which is not conducive to coherent emails.</p>
<div id="attachment_4025" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 440px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/p11-28-10_21-05.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4025 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="P11-28-10_21.05" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/p11-28-10_21-05.jpg?w=430&#038;h=322" alt="" width="430" height="322" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">If I lie down with my arms out when watching tv, Cecil will wrap himself around one of them. </p></div>
<p>When I play his videos he jumps on the desk and inspects the speakers. I always miss when he runs around like mad pretending someone is chasing him. One day I will get him. I have to remember to bring my camera everywhere I go, especially to the bathroom. Sometimes he jumps in the tub, but he hasn&#8217;t done that when I am in it with bubbles.</p>
<div id="attachment_4026" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 332px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/smiling.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4026 " style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="smiling" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/smiling.jpg?w=322&#038;h=430" alt="" width="322" height="430" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Cecil smiles a lot. Sometimes he grins. And he is always talkin&#039;</p></div>
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		<title>News from the bathroom</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jan 2011 00:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is my cat Cecil. He was a homeless cat but I took him away from all that&#8230; &#160; (to be continued when i get around to it. Since I am cutting down on sugar and don&#8217;t keep it in the house, I am spending a lot of time baking. heavy drama-filled sigh)<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=3998&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is my cat Cecil. He was a homeless cat but I took him away from all that&#8230;</p>
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<p>(to be continued when i get around to it. Since I am cutting down on sugar and don&#8217;t keep it in the house, I am spending a lot of time baking. heavy drama-filled sigh)</p>
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		<title>VFR in the Valley Advocate, as &#8220;fixed-up&#8221; by me</title>
		<link>http://benigngirl.wordpress.com/2010/12/21/vfr-in-the-valley-advocate-as-fixed-up-by-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 21:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mark Roessler of THE VALLEY ADVOCATE, interviewed me (Mo Gareau [formerly Ringey]) for an article about Valley Free radio in Florence, MA, where I had a radio show called The Mo Show, or Mo Radio (I never really named it) and chatted with Jay magic, Bob Gardner, Glen Ayers, Tony Shannon, Johanna Halbeisen, Tony Udell, Arjuna Greist, and Sidra Eisman about their shows, which include, music jambalaya, Sing About It, Sidra at Home, Patchwork Majority Radio, Cherries Jubilee, Seeing Red Radio, The Enviro Show, and the FCC, pirate radio licensing, and other sundry things associated with being a radio DJ. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=benigngirl.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1932950&amp;post=3956&amp;subd=benigngirl&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>UPDATE </strong>&#8211; Two of the below letters &#8212; Thank You <a href="http://artfromintuition.wordpress.com/">Dean Nimmer</a> (&lt;&#8211;link goes to his book with the picture of my butt on the cover, to which he refers in his comment) and Dwight Smith &#8212; made it to the next issue in the <a href="http://www.valleyadvocate.com/article.cfm?aid=12927">WHAT DO YOU THINK?</a> forward in each issue! Wow! To quote Sally Field at the Oscars years ago, &#8220;You like me, Tom Vannah, you really like me!&#8221; ;-)</p>
<p>and now, comments by my fabulously sweet pal Claudia Mendoza in Geneva, and the oh-so-lovable Sheryl Jaffe in Granby (paper artist extraordinaire), are in the comments section of the next next issue. Maybe I will reconsider starting up my blog column at the Valley Advocate again? :-)</p>
<div id="attachment_3988" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/200px-ramonathepest_dockray.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-3988" style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="200px-RamonathePest_Dockray" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/200px-ramonathepest_dockray.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Ramona is adamant that she is not a pest. She is a very imaginative girl and this usually gets her into trouble.</p></div>
<p>Even though I (lovably?) antagonize you (because you are like my pal, for my <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramona_the_Pest">Ramona, The Pest</a> persona) about arts coverage and all that. I am impressed! maybe I *will* restart my VA blog column &#8212; my &#8220;Blolgulmn&#8221;&#8230;?</p>
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<p><em>Mo note &#8211;</em> This appeared in the valley Advocate on December 23 but thee <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(typo, but I&#8217;m keeping it!)</span> reporter did NOT use the picture he took of me in my fabulous new sweater from Goodwill, so I am pasting it here with photo added. And soon I intend to add a preamble here, detailing how this story came about and my pesky but lovable &#8216;relationship&#8221; with the editor, from the vantage point of various soapboxes&#8230;.   ;-0</p>
<p><strong>Also, ALL OF MY SHOWS CAN BE DOWNLOADED AND/OR LISTENED TO <a href="http://benigngirl.wordpress.com/radio-show-download-links/">HERE</a>, AND EACH HAS A BLURB ABOUT THE SHOW WITH PICTURES OF MY GUESTS AND/OR THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS/INTERESTS. </strong></p>
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Thursday, December 23, 2010<br />
By Mark Roessler <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; Mark is a fabulous writer and a great guy!)</span></p>
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<div><em>Photo By Mark Roessler </em></div>
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<div><em>An impromptu board meeting for <a href="http://www.valleyfreeradio.org/">Valley Free Radio</a>. Left to right: Glen Ayers of Enviro Watch (Mo note &#8212; I totally love and admire d.o. and Glen Ayers of Enviro Show and they merit more text!), Arjuna Greist, Tony Udell, Bob Gardner, Sidra Eisman.</em></div>
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<p>&#8220;I said, get here ahead of time. What happened? This is live radio, Mark. Where are you?&#8221; Mo Gareau (formerly Ringey) said.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d called her cell phone, and she answered me on the air—10 minutes into <a href="http://benigngirl.wordpress.com/radio-show-download-links/">her morning interview show</a> <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; more like 2o minutes&#8230;)</span>, where I was supposed to be the guest. My first encounter, a few years ago, with <a href="http://www.valleyfreeradio.org/">Valley Free Radio</a> was a bit of a fiasco.</p>
<p>I had gotten to the studio at 8:45 a.m. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; my show was 8-9 am and he called at 7:35. I&#8217;m just sayin&#8230;)</span> and waited for Gareau to drive up in her car, proud I&#8217;d beaten her there<span style="color:#ff00ff;"> (<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; ROFL)</span>. Only as 9 o&#8217;clock loomed and my car remained the only one in the parking lot did I realize that perhaps I was outside the wrong building</p>
<p>When I&#8217;d listened to the station or read about it, I&#8217;d always pictured the broadcast studio being located in the house next to the Lilly Library, the Florence Civic Center. But no. I&#8217;d pictured wrong.</p>
<p>Florence Community Center. Not in the pretty house downtown, but in the basement of the former grade school out near the Arts and Industry building. For reasons too tedious (read: pathetic) to explain, I ended up being a half-hour late to her hour-long interview talk show. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> Mark, You must stop being so hard on yourself)</span></p>
<p>Recently, Gareau sent me links to some of her favorite episodes of her show, and included among the selections was my demi-visit. I didn&#8217;t think I could relive the humiliation. But after listening to the gentle, engaging way Gareau talked with such Valley luminaries as woodworker <a href="http://www.silaskopf.com/">Silas Kopf</a> and journalist <a href="http://connect.masslive.com/user/gsaulmon/index.html">Greg Saulman</a>, I figured my only real penance could be to listen to my almost non-appearance.</p>
<p>I could picture <a href="http://moringey.com/">Gareau</a> sitting alone in that basement studio on a weekday morning, with only a tiny window high up the wall amongst the duct work, quietly freaking out <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I freaked out <strong>loudly </strong>and made a few frantic calls to pals to help, as i don&#8217;t do solo radio)</span> as I&#8217;d been sitting in my car wondering where she was. As I listened to <a href="http://benigngirl.wordpress.com/radio-show-download-links/">the MP3</a>, I waited with terror to hear the pandemonium ensue when she realized I wasn&#8217;t coming any time soon and she deservedly dragged my name through the gutter <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I would never tear someone up on air, or off).</span></p>
<div id="attachment_3963" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 435px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/me_stuffingparty.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-3963 " title="me_stuffingparty" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/me_stuffingparty.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The photo with me in my fabulous new Goodwill sweater, which Mark Roessler did not include in the article. From Left to right, Johanna, Patrice, Me (Mo Gareau), Tony Shannon. I made that &quot;chandelier&quot; hanging over us. So... La-aaa-aa-di dah!</p></div>
<p>Instead, something else happened.</p>
<p>She called a friend to ask what to do, and he <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; that was my fabulous pal who I call <a href="http://artkritics.wordpress.com/">Mr. Sir</a>)</span> obliged by interviewing her on the air. A fellow artist, <a href="http://artkritics.wordpress.com/">he</a> asked her about an upcoming gallery exhibition she was soon to be staging.</p>
<p>Gareau&#8217;s interview technique is conversational, cunning <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> &#8220;cunning&#8221;? whoa. ) </span>and a lot of fun. She baits you with personal information of her own and then jigs the line, taking things off on sudden tangents. She shares a thought of her own, often seeming to seize random ideas through free association and asking her guests what they think about the seemingly unrelated topic. The tactic is disarming. As you stumble for a response, she usually follows up with a more incisive or pointed personal question that—relieved you don&#8217;t have to decipher the first one—you spill your guts to answer. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I had no idea I had a technique. This is how I talk to all my pals, and to myself. And my cat. And the plants. Even my fake trees.)</span></p>
<p>In my absence, having the tables turned on her, it was Gareau who was disarmed—she was guileless with her pal on the phone. <a href="http://artkritics.wordpress.com/">He</a> knew what lit her artistic fuse <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; that was my fabulous pal who I call Mr. Sir)</span>, and with raw passion and naked enthusiasm <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; that is just who and how I am)</span> she described her show of beautiful period appliances covered in intricate webs of sparkling mosaics. It was far better radio than even my on-time company could have offered. She was a great guest on her own show.</p>
<p>When I did arrive, another of Gareau&#8217;s friends and emergency guests was there already. With the two of them riffing about hot dog carts and other topics, and me playing the hangdog bass in the background, chuckling like a mopey Ed McMahon, Gareau completed the show with humor and at least her dignity intact. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; Mark is being way too hard on himself. We had fun teasing him, oh so gently; we two teasifying chicks)</span></p>
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<p>There&#8217;s an adrenaline rush and intimacy to live radio <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; yes, it is scary &#8212; especially if you have to do it alone. I&#8217;m just sayin&#8230;)</span>. People performing before a live microphone are engaged in a high-wire act without the net of the pause or fast-forward buttons their podcasting colleagues employ. It&#8217;s an art that&#8217;s becoming endangered in this digital world, where it&#8217;s easy to edit and broadcast your own professional-sounding show for a multitude to stream or download on their computers.</p>
<p>My iPod and the wonder that is &#8220;shuffle&#8221; have changed my radio-listening life. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> I need an ipod. Does anyone have one they aren&#8217;t using? It is not in my micro OR macro budgets)</span></p>
<p>Growing up, I went to bed and woke up listening to WNEW in New York City, 50 miles away from my bedroom. Listening until way too late on headphones in my bed, I fell in love with my imagined studio and idealized these DJs who brushed elbows with rock gods like Lennon and introduced nobodies like the Police, Squeeze and Joe Jackson. Way past midnight one early morning before school, I listened to an album skip endlessly for 45 minutes, only to be rescued by a napping DJ who said, smooth as hot butter, &#8220;It&#8217;s WNEW, where nobody&#8217;s perfect.&#8221;</p>
<p>Long before it became &#8220;The River,&#8221; I&#8217;d had a close personal relationship with WRSI—while I was a college student in the &#8217;80s. From the phone booth outside my dorm room on a mountain top in southern Vermont, I&#8217;d call in requests to the staff holed up in a studio above Memory Lane in Greenfield. A favorite late night radio moment: After playing it a few times in a row without explanation, Buddy Rubbish threatened to rerun Lionel Richie&#8217;s &#8220;All Night Long&#8221; <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I remember that song!)</span> all night long because &#8220;there is humor in repetition.&#8221;</p>
<p>At moments like that I felt connected with the distant DJs, sharing a moment in time with them and a handful of other late night listeners. Over time, through thick and thin, you developed a relationship with the broadcasters. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> Mark, we did connect on air, very much so. You were actually a great guest, once I got you there, and an affable foil)</span></p>
<p>But then I got an iPod and discovered podcasts. Bit by bit, I stopped listening to the radio.</p>
<p>Podcasts are like radio programs, but instead of something you pick up with an antenna, they&#8217;re a series of digital audio files you download off the Internet to play at your leisure. It&#8217;s possible to find them on almost every imaginable subject. Now, when I travel distances, I load my iPod up with music and Podcasts and set it to play my selected list of media randomly. Voila—I have my own &#8220;radio station&#8221; personally catered to my tastes, moods and whims. When I walk to work in the morning, another stew of tunes I&#8217;ve prepared for myself is ready for me to listen to.</p>
<p>While some podcasts (very few) are recorded live without editing, you never get the sense you&#8217;re listening to something put out there that the makers were utterly embarrassed by. There&#8217;s no chance of hearing a serious glitch, and while there&#8217;s plenty of improvisation, the general public never witnesses the worst gaffes. This safe way of working, combined with not being restrained by a time limit, can sometimes result in podcasts that lack vitality and focus.</p>
<p>The perilous nature of an unedited live radio broadcast, though, can embolden and empower even the meekest personality <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; the meek shall inherit the earth. I&#8217;m just sayin&#8217;)</span>, making what they say more vital (or at least seem that way) and sometimes more succinct. A live broadcast can also be a tonic for audiences accustomed to listening to pre-recorded material. Without a rewind button at hand, your attention to what&#8217;s being said and anticipation of what will happen next are far more acute than when you know you can come back later if you find your mind&#8217;s been wandering.</p>
<p>But even more, as self-satisfying as it is to hear only what you want to hear on your iPod in a mix, live community radio <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> VFR if YOUR community radio right In your backyard. Everyone should listen as we are YOU) </span>puts your attention in other people&#8217;s hands, filling it with wild and wacky poetry, music and ideas. Instead of spending your time listening to some canned show recorded months ago by a distant geek you&#8217;re never likely to meet mumbling into his laptop&#8217;s microphone, you can share some quality time in the present with your neighbors broadcasting from up the street.</p>
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<p>In 2000, a motley crew <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> We call ourselves a motley crew too! You are psychic, Mark! Might I call you every time I am facing befuddlement over decision-making moments?)</span> of Northampton-based radio hopefuls applied for a license from the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) for a low-wattage community radio station. In 2004, after a long mulling, the FCC approved their application, giving them 18 months to get on the air before the license would be revoked. Much fundraising and logistical planning ensued, but in 2005, during one heroic weekend—with the help of technicians from Pacifica, the national community radio network—they went live on the air.</p>
<p>Being a Pacifica affiliate carries some weight <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> oh YEAH.)</span>. The Pacifica Foundation started in 1949 as an alternative to commercial radio, and they are pioneers in listener-supported community radio. As advocates for free speech, they describe themselves thus:</p>
<p>&#8220;Pacifica&#8217;s mission is to promote peace and justice through communication between all races, nationalities and cultures. We strive to contribute to the democratic process through public discourse and promotion of culture. Unbeholden to commercial or governmental interests, we recognize that use of the airwaves is a public trust.&#8221;</p>
<p>As a blossoming venture struggling to be born, Valley Public Radio offered lots of opportunities for a news reporter to chronicle, but once they became a viable concern, their news value diminished. And some of those who worked to see the station realized were disenchanted when it became actual. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> I don&#8217;t really grasp this, but then, I am often grasp-less.)</span></p>
<p>When it was still a fantasy—something that was going to happen—people were able to cherish their own vision for the station. The hope seemed to be that the craziest ideas would get sifted out and never come to be. More even-keeled personalities would take over. But when the station went on the air and became a living, breathing enterprise, to some on the outside it appeared that instead of the practical, sober approach they&#8217;d been imagining, something else—more organic, perhaps— had taken place. The public is welcome to meetings and the agenda is open; the minutes for the board meetings are posted regularly on the station&#8217;s home page (valleyfreeradio.org). Those minutes give a view of leaderless self-governance in action. It&#8217;s a bit messy, goes on tangents, but seems to shamble forward. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; we like to think of it as creatively and humbly deer-in-headlights-without-a-GPS-style. I&#8217;m just sayin&#8217;)</span><strong> </strong></p>
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<p>On a dark and stormy night at the end of November <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I love love love that Mark led in with that phrase)</span>, I found Mo Gareau&#8217;s new studio hidden behind a blank storefront in downtown Holyoke <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I am in the infamous &#8220;Flast&#8221;, but no matter. I&#8217;m just sayin&#8217;)</span>. At her invitation, I crashed a Valley Free Radio fundraising party. There were a pile of photocopied letters and boxes of addressed envelopes. After digging into the snacks and libations Gareau had on hand, the board members, broadcasters and friends of the radio station found a seat and started assembling pleas to their supporters for another dose of funding for the volunteer-run public station.</p>
<p>Bob Gardner <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; Bob is awesome!)</span> ambled over to me—tall, buttoned-up, clean-shaven, he had the steady, relaxed calm of a Western sheriff <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I LOVE that description! Sheriff Bob! Yay!)</span>. He&#8217;d been with the station since its start and was on the board of directors. Could he be of service and answer any of my questions?</p>
<p>Blaming the economy, Gardner said that revenue from fundraising was down this year, but he added that they were somewhat sheltered from hard times by relying chiefly on a small army of passionate volunteer helpers. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I am mad at the economy)</span></p>
<p>The nonprofit radio station pays for utilities, rent and Internet access. Each year it pays copyright licensing fees for the music it plays, but because of its low-voltage transmission (100 watts) and low range, the costs are minimal. There&#8217;s a grant-funded part-time position, but otherwise, no one there is collecting a check. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; except for a soundcheck. hardy-har-har)</span></p>
<p>There are more than 30 shows on the station, many of them from home-grown talent, and the station actively recruits new DJs from its listeners, offering training and possibly slots in the lineup. Gardner is proud of the diversity of its offerings and cites inclusion as part of its mission. The off-kilter, somewhat random potpourri of shows isn&#8217;t a liability, he asserts; it&#8217;s key to the station&#8217;s success.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not familiar with the station&#8217;s schedule, there&#8217;s no knowing what you might be tuning in to when you turn to 103.3 FM in Northampton. Could be you&#8217;re listening to environmentalists, communists or J-Magic&#8217;s music jambalaya <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> OR, you might tune into the AMAZING and exhaustive reporting on serious issues on The Enviro Show, by d.o. and Glen Ayers)</span>.</p>
<div id="attachment_3990" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 295px"><a href="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/jaymajik.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-3990" style="margin-left:5px;margin-right:5px;" title="jaymajik" src="http://benigngirl.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/jaymajik.jpg?w=285&#038;h=430" alt="" width="285" height="430" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">J-Magic of music jambalaya</p></div>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;re getting an earful of the Baha&#8217;i perspective, poetry readings or metal music. The first time I recently tuned in after a long absence, I listened to old tango records for an hour over lunch, enjoying the whispering hiss and grit of the vinyl.</p>
<p>Is there any kind of show Bob Gardner and his fellow board members wouldn&#8217;t allow on the air?</p>
<p>&#8220;Maybe if it&#8217;s too mainstream. Part of our mission is also to provide programming you can&#8217;t get anywhere else.&#8221; Then he laughs and shrugs, &#8220;But if someone one wanted to do a show of mainstream pop music <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; Ew.)</span>, I don&#8217;t know, maybe they could go on at two in the morning.&#8221;</p>
<p>Keeping what they&#8217;ve got going is his chief objective, he said. Some involved with the station dream of getting a full-power license, boosting their transmission up to 1000 watts <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">donations welcome)</span>, but Gardner seems indifferent to growth. Along with the additional cost, Gardner is mindful of how long the FCC can take to grant licenses. He also points out that, in an effort to satisfy as many applicants as possible, the government agency can mandate that more than one group share the space on the radio dial with other prospective broadcasters.</p>
<p>&#8220;We have an exclusive license, but sometimes when two groups apply, they split up the license,&#8221; Gardner said. &#8220;That&#8217;s what happened up in Greenfield [with WMCB 107.9 LPFM]. For 12 hours it&#8217;s a Christian station and 12 hours it&#8217;s a community station.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Many I spoke with that night <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">Mark, again, I laughed out loud when you honored my half-serious request that you begin the article with that old Snoopy-writing-his-novel-at<span class="word_break"> op-his-doghouse line, &#8220;On a dark and stormy night&#8230;&#8221;, that makes you SO awesome! </span></span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">) </span>said they felt that when they first had heard of Valley Free Radio, they&#8217;d felt a calling. Some, like Bob Gardner, don&#8217;t appear on the air, but their devotion for community radio keeps them working in other capacities. Others crave the limelight and their chance at the megaphone. As human beings, they feel whole broadcasting their own shows. They give their programs everything, letting it all hang out, and free from the constraints and demands of commercial radio, their shows have strengthened and matured, becoming as strange and beautiful as their hosts.</p>
<p>Johanna Halbeisen, <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> Johanna is so uniquely and wisely awesome</span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">)</span> whose show <em>Sing About It</em> originated in 1983 on the other side of the river at WMUA, the &#8220;voice of&#8221; UMass-Amherst, joked that a chief attraction VFR held for her initially was &#8220;not to have to drive across the bridge all the time.&#8221; She has been involved since the early days, long before there was a station. She describes her show as focusing on &#8220;social justice, topical folk music.&#8221; During her off-air hours, Halbeisen runs the New Song Library, a vast collection of songs &#8220;about people&#8217;s lives, hopes and struggles,&#8221; which is available as a repository for songwriters&#8217; work but also as a resource for singers and activists looking for music to support their cause.</p>
<p>Sidra Eisman <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note</em> &#8212; Sidra Eisman is THE BOMB!)</span> had hosted a reggae show when she was in college, and when she heard there might be a community station in Northampton, she said, &#8220;the hairs stood up on the back of my neck and I just knew I&#8217;d get involved.&#8221; She&#8217;d kept her distance initially, though: &#8220;I was kind of scared it was too good to be true.&#8221; But as a guest on a show hosted by blues singer Marla BB, she couldn&#8217;t resist the attraction. She now begins every Friday morning with her show <em>Sidra at Home</em> at 8 am. She plays music from all over the world and interviews performers, &#8220;particularly those that educate. And now I&#8217;m on the board. And I love it. I love my people. I am home.&#8221; <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">I truly love and admire the amazingly original bomb that is Sidra Ellison [formerly Eisman]</span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">)</span></p>
<p>Arjuna Greist has been on the air since two days after the station&#8217;s birth. Her Monday night show, <em>Patchwork Majority Radio,</em> runs from 9 p.m. to 11 p.m. and features music, stories and poetry to inspire and support social justice movements. Shows often follow a topical theme, and between the music and interviews with local artists, she provides commentary of her own. Some of the artists she most admires (and regularly plays) include Lenelle Mo?se, Pamela Means and Michael Franti. She&#8217;s also been on the VFR board for two years.</p>
<p>Tony Shannon <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; I just lurrrrve my Tony Shannon!)</span> was on the board for three and a half years, &#8220;but,&#8221; he says, &#8220;I&#8217;m done with that now.&#8221; He identifies himself with Bob Gardner as someone who is more comfortable off the mic. He&#8217;s responsible for maintaining many of the station&#8217;s broadcast systems, especially keeping the automated, syndicated shows running when no one else is around. He says he enjoys being a part of their &#8220;unintentional community,&#8221; and everyone clearly values him. All the show hosts make an effort (often within earshot of him) to impress upon me how indebted they are to Tony&#8217;s services.</p>
<p>While keeping others on the air is his chief function, Shannon <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">Tony Shannon is <a href="http://www.renewalmassagecenter.com/">a very skilled masseur</a>, and also keeps VFR running with his mind-boggling hours of volunteer work and his passionate commitment to &#8220;herding kittens&#8221;, which is what it takes to keep VFR running</span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">) </span>has managed to figure out a way to host a show without actually appearing on it himself. He uses the female vocal talents of the all-digital, computer-generated Cherries Jubilee to DJ a selection of &#8217;80s New Wave Italo-disco music Fridays evenings at 8.</p>
<p>&#8220;I was attracted to Valley Free Radio,&#8221; Tony Udell said, &#8220;because I&#8217;m an inveterate communist, <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;">Yes he is, in a very good way) </span>and I was trying to spread my anti-capitalist virus to the rest of the world. I&#8217;ve found such a pleasant little home with all these other misfits <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; </span><span style="color:#ff00ff;"> I am proud to be a misfit. Oh, so proud) </span>. I do a show called <em>Seeing Red Radio,</em> which is the revolutionary, socialist-marxist perspective—all the different shades of red—and I&#8217;m also doing an Afro-beat show on Saturdays, which is more a recent phenomenon. The politics show is a calling—where else can you hear communism on the radio?&#8221;</p>
<p>Udell&#8217;s been involved since the start, and also had prior college experience. Over the years, he&#8217;s been on the board and been a program director, but the role he continues to embrace beyond his shows is as the group&#8217;s head trainer. The first Sunday of every month, they open the studios from noon until three, and he makes himself and the studio available to anyone who&#8217;s interested. It&#8217;s a complex system, cobbled together from donated equipment, but Udell will patiently hold anyone&#8217;s hand, get them familiar with the controls and show them how to broadcast.</p>
<p>&#8220;We have an open door policy,&#8221; he said. &#8220;And from my own, personal political perspective that&#8217;s important; I believe we have a capacity for self-organization. We don&#8217;t need to wait until we get paid. We can get this done, driven by our own passion for the truth.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Driving home from Mo Gareau&#8217;s party <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; Mark drove himself home)</span>, I was resolved to listen to more Valley Free Radio—and trying to remember where to find it on the dial. <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(Mo note:  103.3 FM, streaming at <a href="http://www.valleyfreeradio.org">www.valleyfreeradio.org</a>) </span></p>
<p>In less than an hour, I&#8217;d met almost a dozen radio personalities <span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; we ARE personalities, wrapped in people) </span>who felt confident that if they were just given a chance, they&#8217;d take care of their audience for as long as they&#8217;d listen. Instead of swimming around in my own headspace on my iPod, they invited me and everyone else to tune in and step inside their noggins for a while.</p>
<p>Though they play by the FCC&#8217;s rules, they project the feel of a pirate station broadcasting from just off the coast. Unburdened by the demands of a corporate owner or the need to satisfy an advertiser&#8217;s politics, they call things as they see them. The promo for Udell&#8217;s <em>Seeing Red Radio </em>show doesn&#8217;t just promise to report news you won&#8217;t hear elsewhere, but news that&#8217;s &#8220;being actively suppressed.&#8221; If a DJ thought a recent community meeting might be of interest, he would play the whole dang thing. The music is often radical, and often selected with wit and satire in mind.</p>
<p>Running around town on holiday errands, instead of Bing Crosby crooning to me as I sat stuck in traffic, someone at VFR was playing Hayes Carll&#8217;s new country tune, &#8220;She Left Me for Jesus.&#8221; He bemoaned his loved one&#8217;s fixation with this new guy who wears sandals and has long, pretty hair:</p>
<p><em>She says I should find him</em><em><br />
And I&#8217;ll know peace at last.</em><em><br />
If I ever find Jesus,<br />
I&#8217;m kicking his ass.</em></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff00ff;">(<em>Mo note </em>&#8211; as the FCC isn&#8217;t much enthralled of indie radio, if we had let that word by and not bleeped it, we&#8217;d be hit with a #344,000 fine!)</span></p>
<p>Not a song many businesses would want to stick an ad after, and not one I&#8217;d ever have heard, except when I was listening to someone else&#8217;s set list. But the song fit my soured mood for the pre-holiday frenzy perfectly. Take a listen for yourself. 103.3 FM in Northampton.</p>
<p><strong><em>Editor&#8217;s Note: </em></strong><em>Last week, the Local Community Radio Act was passed by the U.S. Senate, expanding the low-power FM (LPFM) service created by the FCC in 2000. It will make broadcast licenses available to thousands of groups nationally, such as schools, churches, local governments and non-profit organizations. The bill repeals earlier legislation supported by corporate broadcasters who claimed the proliferation of 100-watt stations would affect their broadcasts, a claim debunked in a 2003 Congressionally mandated study. The Local Community Radio Act was also approved by the House; at press time only the president&#8217;s signature was needed for it to become law.</em></p>
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<p>Thanks so much for joining us Mark, and for a fabulous article! I would like to mention an important fact &#8212; as programmers at VFR we fund ourselves as well, by way of paying annual membership fees in order to be involved with the station, whether it be on air or not, and so we do rely on our own monetary contributions to pay our bills, in addition to our outreach efforts for donations.</p>
<p>We also play a minimum of two Public Service Announcements per hour for all community organizations who (whom?) send us their info by way of our website, so we support our community by free promotion of all non-profit events, as well as by having local characters on for hour-long chat so they may promote their myriad activities and talents. Such support is why we feel comfortable in asking for donations from the community of which are we a part and which we so happily serve.</p>
<p>Also, I laughed out loud when you honored my half-serious request that you begin the article with that old Snoopy-writing-his-novel-at<span class="word_break"> op-his-doghouse line, &#8220;On a dark and stormy night&#8230;&#8221;, and you surely did brave sideways rain and wind to join us, for which we are all very grateful. We often feel the community hardly knows we are here, like so many Whos in Whoville.</span></p>
<p>Due to further decline caused by a degenerative spinal disease which makes even driving difficult most days, I have stepped aside and given up my 5 year broadcast slot for Bill Dwight, who shall now be on air during that time, and I will be podcasting my interviews, as recorded in my studio by those also willing to make the trek to the flats of Molyoke (not downtown, though thanks for giving me a geographic promotion), via my blog at benigngirl.com, at the Mo radio link, and have a fabulous 2 hour interview with the famous, hilarious, and cerebrally-intriguing Gary Farmer of stage, movie, tv, and now blues band fame. &lt;&#8212; I just had to shout that out, as it is the most amazing interview I have ever had, aside from my frantic ad-libbing on the day you went to the wrong place for your appearance on my show and I said, on air, &#8220;What were you thinking? This is LIVE radio!&#8221;. ;-)</p>
<p>Thanks again!</p>
<p>your pal, the now-rhyming,</p>
<p>Mo Gareau</p>
<p>p.s. Since you didn&#8217;t use the picture of me in my fabulous new sweater, I will repost this on my blog and include it, and will also shotoshop you in wearing a lampshade!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:08</div>
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<p>Sigh. Did I mention that spinal disease comes with arthritis which makes typos appear like rainbows as I type, causing me to then type, &#8220;damint!&#8221; after each typo?</p>
<p>I meant &#8220;photoshop&#8221;, no shotoshop, as the bluebird on my shoulder just pointed out to me. ;-)</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:12</div>
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<p>Me again, My show was 8-9 am, BTW.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:17</div>
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<p>Mark, I loved this piece. You captured exactly the spirit of WXPN in Philly that really drew me to radio, as you know, more than the commercial dial but something sacred. Which i think it is. In its way.</p>
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<p>I am a firm beliver in independent, non-commercial community radio. Valley free Radio&#8217;s eclectic programming is a oasis from the vast wasteland that is commercial radio in this country.</p>
<p>The &#8220;Mo&#8221; show,is the most unique of the programming schedule in my opinion. The 8:00AM slot is perfect, as we here at Smith College tune in faithfully. Mo is known for her range of radio guests, which include artists,writers, musicians, and I once heard her interview with CBS&#8217;s Brandon<br />
Butcher. It was entertaining and a learning experience.<br />
She is able to call upon the most interesting guests. She has a warming easy-going personality, she is engaging,spontaneous, well spoken, and at times quirky.<br />
I like quirky ,I like Mo!</p>
<p>i was priveledged to sit in on Mo&#8217;s recorded inerview with the famous Gary Farmer abd it was easily the most amazing interview i have ever witnessed, Gary has been gushing ever since that he has never had such a unique interview and that he has never been treated so nicely because Mo made him a cappuccino and set out an array of food, knowing he has been on the road with his blues band for weeks. He was so enjoying himself that he accidentally blew off two other press appointments and then asked her to consider doing a documentary of his life. Gary is still gushing that it felt like being part of a facinating conversation rather than answering the same old questions he has been answering since his movie days in which he starred alongside Johnny Depp and various others, even when he worked in a jim Jarmusch film. She has a way about her that makes guest feel special and like they are the most fascinating people she has ever met and that&#8217;s because it is how she is, as she says she eschews formailty of any sort. her show is like eavesdropping on a conversation at the next table in a cafe and is riveting. I look forward to her podcasts on her blog. I am trying to convine her to try cable tv, if her neurological condition will allow. i think she is more natural than the often awkward larry king or oprah winfrey, seriously.</p>
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<p>Mo is a unique treasure and singular talent.</p>
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<p>Mo is a delight to work with in any capacity. Thoughtful, sensitive, warm and funny, I have no doubt that she puts her radio guests at ease immediately. How is it that all that talent can be wrapped in such a small, charming package? Her insightful approach to life and art are especially commendable.</p>
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<p>Great article, Mark! You capture the essence of live community radio.</p>
<p>We are sorry to lose the Mo Show due to Mo&#8217;s physical complications. She was one of several shows doing live interviews. My Good News show (Thurs, 7 pm) has recently interviewed William Spademen of Common Good Bank, and Lilly Lombard of Grow Food Northampton, both local activists. The Enviro Show and Farm to Fork (both on Tuesday, 6:30 pm) do local interviews. Sidra (Fridays, 8 am) has been interviewing a whole range of community folks.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Johanna Halbeisen on 12.22.10 at 11:36</div>
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<p>Thanks Johanna!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to reiterate that though we have only a 100 watt range, all of these fabulous shows can be streamed at www.valleyfreeradio.org, with just a few clicks. :-D</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.22.10 at 11:48</div>
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<p>Wonderful article. I have not been able to tune into Valley Free Radio much since I am out of their broadcasting range and working too hard on my computer to be able to pay attention by dialing in on line. Mo is the one reason I would make the attempt. The few times I caught her were amazing and one of those instances was Mo interviewing Elinor Lipman. Yes—Mo&#8217;s interviews were intimate and cozy and like sitting in a coffee shop talking with a couple of good friends. Her insights are deep, from a perspective that makes you say Whoa! I&#8217;m so sorry to hear that she&#8217;s given up her slot although Bill Dwight is a worthy replacement. Hopefully, she&#8217;ll resurface—her voice is just too good to lose.</p>
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<p>The article is great and well written, as is all of Mark&#8217;s work, although the biggest thing to ever come from Valley Free Radio is completely missing &#8212; The David Pakman Show. It has made a national impact, it is on national radio and TV, it started at VFR, and he is on his way to be the next Rachel Maddow. I would like to see a feature story about his show.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Diego Kirzen on 12.22.10 at 12:32</div>
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<p>I think the best time I ever had talking about myself was on Mo&#8217;s show. She has the knack of putting people at ease and drawing out their humor. She listens between the lines. After the interview I felt like I could just go kick watermelons a half mile and speak in tongues.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://artistsatopensquare.com/" target="_blank">gary hallgren</a> on 12.22.10 at 13:24</div>
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<p>Mo&#8217;s show was always fun and insightful. I loved hearing how she conversed with her guests and became genuinly excited for whatver adventure they faced in life. I always looked forward to tuning in at 8am with a cup of coffee. Listening in always made me feel like I was back in the valley for a little while. I&#8217;m glad to know your podcasts will continue Mo!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.thealanwhite.com/" target="_blank">Alan White</a> on 12.22.10 at 13:47</div>
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<p>I don&#8217;t live in the valley. In fact living in Montreal I haven&#8217;t a hope of picking up the signal but for a while somewhere back then Mo would send me copies of her show and I found them a pure delight. I know nothing about the valley, have never been there, only know Mo and yet listening to her shows made me feel transported into a local cafe in your community and getting to know various personalties through the filter of Mo&#8217;s clever wit and indefatigable intelligence. I suspect her laugh alone is equal to four coffees. Her brilliance as an interviewer is to remain true to her own voice. I suspect this is the main reason her guests sounded perfectly at ease. I think it was Emerson who said that character was what we see in someone when they don&#8217;t know we&#8217;re watching. Over the airwaves, Mo&#8217;s character is remarkable and true. Thank you Mo for giving all that you do.</p>
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<p>Will someone please pull The Enviro Show from off the spike? Ouch! That hurts!</p>
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<p>okay, i am adding comments about the enviro show here, and on my blog for which i will interview you about it d.o., cuz you are an awesome pal and your show rocks! (edited as if I wrote it about you, though you wrote it for the article):</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the deal with The Enviro Show. Glen, d.o. &amp; Jean Grossholtz have been active enviros forever. Jean has a long history of environmental activism, part of which she was recently honored for by the National Priorities Project. D.o. was a founding member of Mass Earth First! during it&#8217;s second incarnation in the &#8217;90s and Glen got involved during the Mt. Wachusetts old-growth debacle. It was only&#8230;err&#8230;natural? that they&#8217;d end up doing an environmental show on VFR when it came on the air in 2005. They must&#8217;ve been doing something right &#8216;cuz within a few years The Advocate awarded them both a Halo and Horns! (actually the Horns was a typo in their on-line version but they took it as a dirt worshiping, tree-hugger&#8217;s trouble-making badge on honor). The show, and of course VFR, have given the enviro show a platform to air seemingly radical, Earthcentric, outlooks and information to listeners in the Valley; something they do not get from any other media source in western Massachusetts. Local and regional environmental news is almost always based in anthropocentric terms and liberal, or worse moderate, in tone. There&#8217;s is a reason they&#8217;ve chosen REM&#8217;s &#8220;The End of the World as We Know it&#8221; as our opening theme song: humanity is pushing life on planet Earth over the cliff. Their job: save the world! ;)</p>
<p>&#8211;and, if it weren&#8217;t for people like d.o., Glen Ayers, and Jean Grossholtz trying to save the world and get us all to help, it would not have a chance.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.22.10 at 19:32</div>
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<p>VFR is so important. I had the good fortune to be a guest on Mo&#8217;s show twice. I had such a postive experience both times. As an artist, when I&#8217;m involved in a project it can be challenging to articulate what my work is about as it is developing. During both interviews I was still processing specific aspects of my projects and Mo prompted me and provided me the opportunity to put to words what my work was about- I found I had so much more to say then I knew, and it became an important part of my process. Bravo for getting people talking with such vigor during such an earlly morning show as well!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://maggienowinski@gmail.com/" target="_blank">Maggie</a> on 12.22.10 at 22:38</div>
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<p>VFR is gift to the world because it maintains a sense of PLACE; it&#8217;s a beautiful oasis of diversity co-existing in harmony and shows the world to embrace our differences &#8212; and to celebrate them. Most importantly, VFR reminds us that WE ALL BELONG. Viva VFR!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.brithammer.com/" target="_blank">Brit Hammer</a> on 12.23.10 at 5:10</div>
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<p>Mark, that was a great article that highlights one of the best community radio stations in the Pioneer Valley.</p>
<p>I was particularly interested to hear your amusing account about being a guest on the Mo Show that struck a cord with me. I was a guest on her show when I was promoting my new book, Art from Intuition and, in a manner of speaking, I showed up late as well.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a longtime friend and admirer of the lovable Ms Mo, and I know firsthand the wit and humor that made her show appealing to so many listeners. Of course, Mo’s painterly gesture in snug-fitting jeans, grace the front of my book as well, and I thought this is a natural way for us to “Talk Radio” together, but it didn’t quite come together as I hoped.</p>
<p>Knowing my reputation for non-punctuality, Mo was at my door bright and early offering a firm, “Get in, we’ve got to go!” as a counter to my offering – “I made us some coffee” greeting. And though it was sleeting out and very slippery, a determined Mo put her pedal-to-the-metal, frantically driving around the cautious wimps heeding the speed limit that day.</p>
<p>Upon arriving, I kind of remember some confusion about the key to the studio missing and problems with an amplifier or tapes not working that got me pretty nervous. Though Mo was a bit agitated, she calmly got it all together minutes before we went on the air, and all of a sudden we were live!</p>
<p>“Hi, this is the Mo Show with my guest, Dean Nimmer!” And like a deer in the headlights, I exclaimed something like, “Hi to you too, too!” and we were off to a – Did I just say that? – radio broadcast. Mo tried to get me at ease with some small talk about the weather and hellos to friends that might be listening but I completely froze up when we got into discussing my art and book. It wasn’t Mo’s fault, but I just couldn’t be spontaneous or funny talking about this book that took me 5-years to write and I probably talked more about how much I liked the book’s cover than I did about what’s between the pages. It took a bunch of Mo’s prodding me during a Van Morrison record break to get the message &#8211; “C’mon, lighten up!”- that may have salvaged the last half of the interview – i.e. I was a half hour late in arriving too.</p>
<p>Given that awkward debut, I’m probably not headed to replace Larry King, but I now fully appreciate the fact that Mo (Ringey) Gareau is a terrific radio host, and her Benign Girl blog showcases her exceptional talents as a writer to boot.</p>
<p>So, Go Mo, GO!</p>
<p>Dean Nimmer</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.artfromintuition.com/" target="_blank">Dean Nimmer</a> on 12.23.10 at 15:12</div>
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<p>Brit,</p>
<p>Beacuse you did not mention that you appeared on my show from Rotterdam via skype, to discuss your book, &#8220;<strong><em><span class="caps">MOSAIC: <span class="caps">FINDING YOUR OWN VOICE&#8221;</span></span></em></strong>,I will give you a plug and a link &#8212;- &gt; Brit is a fabulous artist and author who has written many books about the art of Mosaics, as well as feature articles for such magazines as New England Home Magazine. The book she discussed on my show can be found at http://www.brithammer.com/mosaic/</p>
<p>And thanks Dean, especially for not mentioning that the jeans on your book cover &#8212; at www.artfromintuition.com were held together by duct tape. And you were NOT a bad guest. I thought your deer-in-headlights persona was entertainingly comedic.</p>
<p>:-D</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.23.10 at 16:00</div>
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<p>Although I&#8217;ve been in the Valley 10 years now, I must sheepishly admit that I&#8217;ve never tuned in to Valley Free Radio. I&#8217;m just not a radiohead. But I&#8217;m not a podcast-listening I-Podder, either. I&#8217;m one of those increasingly rare specimens who gets most all of my info visually: reading. That said, after reading your article in this week&#8217;s Advocate, Mark, I&#8217;m actually going to make a point to tune in. Communication which is not beholden to commerce counts way high in my book!</p>
<p>And I must put in my two cents about the Mo Show &#8212; it is indeed a loss to know that Mo has been forced to fold her show, even tho&#8217; I&#8217;ve never heard it. I first learned about the phenomenon that is Mo thru&#8217; the weekly arts listings e-newsletter that she started (now passed on to other capable hands and renamed The Valley Arts Newsletter). Her passion for and dedication to promoting arts and culture in the Valley, over many years, with great organizational talent, wordsmithing extraordinaire, and an ability to link ideas and people have been a great gift beyond measure. i&#8217;ve been thankful that she has maintained her blog, which I relish, even while needing to let other things go.</p>
<p>I look forward to tuning in to VFR and getting to know other local luminaries who undoubtedly have wonderful gifts of their own that they are able to share thanks to the VFR platform. Thanks all, for your passion, creativity and voices! You&#8217;re part of what makes the Valley great!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.sarahblissart.com/" target="_blank">Sarah Bliss</a> on 12.23.10 at 20:36</div>
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<p>Mo rocks and she does make each person she touches feel special. She approaches her guests with admiration, and sincere curiosity about their accomplishments and opinions. In fact, I&#8217;ll bet her interviewees leave feeling eager and able to leap higher and higher as a result of Mo&#8217;s enthusiasm.</p>
<p>Her quirky wit is what I most admire. She looks at things as if she were standing on her head, so they come into focus in a new and unique way. Witty, iconoclastic, and really tuned in. The only thing I enjoy more than hearing her show is reading her blog. And if I don&#8217;t respond, it&#8217;s because I can&#8217;t do it as well as she does. Mo, I don&#8217;t have the time to blog, twitter, chirp, or do the networking that keeps you in the loop of so many talented and loopy people. But, I hope you&#8217;ll keep those of us who are bogged down very blogged up. Your take on it all is a sublime treat, like chocolate with grappa inside.</p>
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<p>I had the opportunity to be part of Mo&#8217;s show twice, and enjoyed both despite being afraid of a microphone! Mo has the ability to make you confortable, is witty and sharp, asks the right questions even though she may get the wrong answers! She is fun to work with and from the other side, entertaining and informative to read or listen to. More Mo!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Jean-Pierre Pasche on 12.27.10 at 11:39</div>
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<p>Thanks all of you for your comments. After a very long hiatus due to my italic spine, I fully intend to start blogging again soon! :-D</p>
<p>And the reason my show was so fun is because I have crazy luck and meet the most amazing people and have a knack for convincing said most amazing people to come on air and trust me that it will be fun and that, &#8220;no one is listening anyway&#8230;&#8221;. In fact, to make it less terrifying for me and my guests, I never turned on the lights in the broadcast studio bc somehow, sitting there in the dim light from the basement transom, it seemed more like play and less like being live. :-)</p>
<p>y&#8217;all are so damn lovable! I am a very lucky person indeed!</p>
<p>xxxoooo all!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.27.10 at 14:37</div>
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<p>If your president ever finds the way to your excellent article, he will certainly sign, to make such a creative radio experience spread all over the country! Thank&#8217;s for telling us, foreigners, how real people in the USA can be free and live their own way, far from the stereotypes so commonly shown by the news and the (de)press. Anyhow, please congratulate Mo &amp; Co for their work -even if I can&#8217;t listen to their radio (Switzerland is really almost another world).</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Claudia Mendoza on 12.29.10 at 20:14</div>
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<p>Wow, I only just got to reading the article in the advocate and these fabulous posts. Mo is truly amazing, it was a gas being a guest on her show, I hope she&#8217;ll invite me again and we&#8217;ll rattle more than just paper. Mark&#8217;s article took me back, i often wish I had a transistor like I did at 12 years old, and would listen continuously, especially under my pillow. I love the randomness of listening to live radio and spend my 45 min daily commute wandering across the dials. Mark Roessler&#8217;s description of Mo&#8217;s interviewing style reminded me of Diane Arbus&#8217; photographing style: relax your subject, reach in for the real stuff and make it shine. What Diane did visually, Mo does with words, but with gleeful fun and fast-thinking intelligence. Mo is a wizard, and I hope she keeps writing, I&#8217;ll be tuning in.</p>
<p>Happy New Year-to good things</p>
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<p>Thanks so much for joining us Mark, and for a fabulous article! I would like to mention an important fact &#8212; as programmers at VFR we fund ourselves as well, by way of paying annual membership fees in order to be involved with the station, whether it be on air or not, and so we do rely on our own monetary contributions to pay our bills, in addition to our outreach efforts for donations.</p>
<p>We also play a minimum of two Public Service Announcements per hour for all community organizations who (whom?) send us their info by way of our website, so we support our community by free promotion of all non-profit events, as well as by having local characters on for hour-long chat so they may promote their myriad activities and talents. Such support is why we feel comfortable in asking for donations from the community of which are we a part and which we so happily serve.</p>
<p>Also, I laughed out loud when you honored my half-serious request that you begin the article with that old Snoopy-writing-his-novel-at<span class="word_break"> op-his-doghouse line, &#8220;On a dark and stormy night&#8230;&#8221;, and you surely did brave sideways rain and wind to join us, for which we are all very grateful. We often feel the community hardly knows we are here, like so many Whos in Whoville.</span></p>
<p>Due to further decline caused by a degenerative spinal disease which makes even driving difficult most days, I have stepped aside and given up my 5 year broadcast slot for Bill Dwight, who shall now be on air during that time, and I will be podcasting my interviews, as recorded in my studio by those also willing to make the trek to the flats of Molyoke (not downtown, though thanks for giving me a geographic promotion), via my blog at benigngirl.com, at the Mo radio link, and have a fabulous 2 hour interview with the famous, hilarious, and cerebrally-intriguing Gary Farmer of stage, movie, tv, and now blues band fame. &lt;&#8212; I just had to shout that out, as it is the most amazing interview I have ever had, aside from my frantic ad-libbing on the day you went to the wrong place for your appearance on my show and I said, on air, &#8220;What were you thinking? This is LIVE radio!&#8221;. ;-)</p>
<p>Thanks again!</p>
<p>your pal, the now-rhyming,</p>
<p>Mo Gareau</p>
<p>p.s. Since you didn&#8217;t use the picture of me in my fabulous new sweater, I will repost this on my blog and include it, and will also shotoshop you in wearing a lampshade!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:08</div>
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<p>Sigh. Did I mention that spinal disease comes with arthritis which makes typos appear like rainbows as I type, causing me to then type, &#8220;damint!&#8221; after each typo?</p>
<p>I meant &#8220;photoshop&#8221;, no shotoshop, as the bluebird on my shoulder just pointed out to me. ;-)</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:12</div>
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<p>Me again, My show was 8-9 am, BTW.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.21.10 at 16:17</div>
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<p>Mark, I loved this piece. You captured exactly the spirit of WXPN in Philly that really drew me to radio, as you know, more than the commercial dial but something sacred. Which i think it is. In its way.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.valleyadvocate.com/blogs/home.cfm?uid=9" target="_blank">Sarah B</a> on 12.22.10 at 8:31</div>
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<p>I am a firm beliver in independent, non-commercial community radio. Valley free Radio&#8217;s eclectic programming is a oasis from the vast wasteland that is commercial radio in this country.</p>
<p>The &#8220;Mo&#8221; show,is the most unique of the programming schedule in my opinion. The 8:00AM slot is perfect, as we here at Smith College tune in faithfully. Mo is known for her range of radio guests, which include artists,writers, musicians, and I once heard her interview with CBS&#8217;s Brandon<br />
Butcher. It was entertaining and a learning experience.<br />
She is able to call upon the most interesting guests. She has a warming easy-going personality, she is engaging,spontaneous, well spoken, and at times quirky.<br />
I like quirky ,I like Mo!</p>
<p>i was priveledged to sit in on Mo&#8217;s recorded inerview with the famous Gary Farmer abd it was easily the most amazing interview i have ever witnessed, Gary has been gushing ever since that he has never had such a unique interview and that he has never been treated so nicely because Mo made him a cappuccino and set out an array of food, knowing he has been on the road with his blues band for weeks. He was so enjoying himself that he accidentally blew off two other press appointments and then asked her to consider doing a documentary of his life. Gary is still gushing that it felt like being part of a facinating conversation rather than answering the same old questions he has been answering since his movie days in which he starred alongside Johnny Depp and various others, even when he worked in a jim Jarmusch film. She has a way about her that makes guest feel special and like they are the most fascinating people she has ever met and that&#8217;s because it is how she is, as she says she eschews formailty of any sort. her show is like eavesdropping on a conversation at the next table in a cafe and is riveting. I look forward to her podcasts on her blog. I am trying to convine her to try cable tv, if her neurological condition will allow. i think she is more natural than the often awkward larry king or oprah winfrey, seriously.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Mr Sir on 12.22.10 at 10:35</div>
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<p>Mo is a unique treasure and singular talent.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Fletcher Smith on 12.22.10 at 11:08</div>
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<p>Mo is a delight to work with in any capacity. Thoughtful, sensitive, warm and funny, I have no doubt that she puts her radio guests at ease immediately. How is it that all that talent can be wrapped in such a small, charming package? Her insightful approach to life and art are especially commendable.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Julia C on 12.22.10 at 11:13</div>
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<p>Great article, Mark! You capture the essence of live community radio.</p>
<p>We are sorry to lose the Mo Show due to Mo&#8217;s physical complications. She was one of several shows doing live interviews. My Good News show (Thurs, 7 pm) has recently interviewed William Spademen of Common Good Bank, and Lilly Lombard of Grow Food Northampton, both local activists. The Enviro Show and Farm to Fork (both on Tuesday, 6:30 pm) do local interviews. Sidra (Fridays, 8 am) has been interviewing a whole range of community folks.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Johanna Halbeisen on 12.22.10 at 11:36</div>
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<p>Thanks Johanna!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to reiterate that though we have only a 100 watt range, all of these fabulous shows can be streamed at www.valleyfreeradio.org, with just a few clicks. :-D</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.22.10 at 11:48</div>
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<p>Wonderful article. I have not been able to tune into Valley Free Radio much since I am out of their broadcasting range and working too hard on my computer to be able to pay attention by dialing in on line. Mo is the one reason I would make the attempt. The few times I caught her were amazing and one of those instances was Mo interviewing Elinor Lipman. Yes—Mo&#8217;s interviews were intimate and cozy and like sitting in a coffee shop talking with a couple of good friends. Her insights are deep, from a perspective that makes you say Whoa! I&#8217;m so sorry to hear that she&#8217;s given up her slot although Bill Dwight is a worthy replacement. Hopefully, she&#8217;ll resurface—her voice is just too good to lose.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Susan on 12.22.10 at 11:56</div>
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<p>The article is great and well written, as is all of Mark&#8217;s work, although the biggest thing to ever come from Valley Free Radio is completely missing &#8212; The David Pakman Show. It has made a national impact, it is on national radio and TV, it started at VFR, and he is on his way to be the next Rachel Maddow. I would like to see a feature story about his show.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Diego Kirzen on 12.22.10 at 12:32</div>
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<p>I think the best time I ever had talking about myself was on Mo&#8217;s show. She has the knack of putting people at ease and drawing out their humor. She listens between the lines. After the interview I felt like I could just go kick watermelons a half mile and speak in tongues.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://artistsatopensquare.com/" target="_blank">gary hallgren</a> on 12.22.10 at 13:24</div>
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<p>Mo&#8217;s show was always fun and insightful. I loved hearing how she conversed with her guests and became genuinly excited for whatver adventure they faced in life. I always looked forward to tuning in at 8am with a cup of coffee. Listening in always made me feel like I was back in the valley for a little while. I&#8217;m glad to know your podcasts will continue Mo!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.thealanwhite.com/" target="_blank">Alan White</a> on 12.22.10 at 13:47</div>
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<p>I don&#8217;t live in the valley. In fact living in Montreal I haven&#8217;t a hope of picking up the signal but for a while somewhere back then Mo would send me copies of her show and I found them a pure delight. I know nothing about the valley, have never been there, only know Mo and yet listening to her shows made me feel transported into a local cafe in your community and getting to know various personalties through the filter of Mo&#8217;s clever wit and indefatigable intelligence. I suspect her laugh alone is equal to four coffees. Her brilliance as an interviewer is to remain true to her own voice. I suspect this is the main reason her guests sounded perfectly at ease. I think it was Emerson who said that character was what we see in someone when they don&#8217;t know we&#8217;re watching. Over the airwaves, Mo&#8217;s character is remarkable and true. Thank you Mo for giving all that you do.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by dwight Smith on 12.22.10 at 16:51</div>
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<p>Will someone please pull The Enviro Show from off the spike? Ouch! That hurts!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://envirosho.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">d.o.</a> on 12.22.10 at 19:16</div>
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<p>okay, i am adding comments about the enviro show here, and on my blog for which i will interview you about it d.o., cuz you are an awesome pal and your show rocks! (edited as if I wrote it about you, though you wrote it for the article):</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the deal with The Enviro Show. Glen, d.o. &amp; Jean Grossholtz have been active enviros forever. Jean has a long history of environmental activism, part of which she was recently honored for by the National Priorities Project. D.o. was a founding member of Mass Earth First! during it&#8217;s second incarnation in the &#8217;90s and Glen got involved during the Mt. Wachusetts old-growth debacle. It was only&#8230;err&#8230;natural? that they&#8217;d end up doing an environmental show on VFR when it came on the air in 2005. They must&#8217;ve been doing something right &#8216;cuz within a few years The Advocate awarded them both a Halo and Horns! (actually the Horns was a typo in their on-line version but they took it as a dirt worshiping, tree-hugger&#8217;s trouble-making badge on honor). The show, and of course VFR, have given the enviro show a platform to air seemingly radical, Earthcentric, outlooks and information to listeners in the Valley; something they do not get from any other media source in western Massachusetts. Local and regional environmental news is almost always based in anthropocentric terms and liberal, or worse moderate, in tone. There&#8217;s is a reason they&#8217;ve chosen REM&#8217;s &#8220;The End of the World as We Know it&#8221; as our opening theme song: humanity is pushing life on planet Earth over the cliff. Their job: save the world! ;)</p>
<p>&#8211;and, if it weren&#8217;t for people like d.o., Glen Ayers, and Jean Grossholtz trying to save the world and get us all to help, it would not have a chance.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.22.10 at 19:32</div>
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<p>VFR is so important. I had the good fortune to be a guest on Mo&#8217;s show twice. I had such a postive experience both times. As an artist, when I&#8217;m involved in a project it can be challenging to articulate what my work is about as it is developing. During both interviews I was still processing specific aspects of my projects and Mo prompted me and provided me the opportunity to put to words what my work was about- I found I had so much more to say then I knew, and it became an important part of my process. Bravo for getting people talking with such vigor during such an earlly morning show as well!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://maggienowinski@gmail.com/" target="_blank">Maggie</a> on 12.22.10 at 22:38</div>
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<p>VFR is gift to the world because it maintains a sense of PLACE; it&#8217;s a beautiful oasis of diversity co-existing in harmony and shows the world to embrace our differences &#8212; and to celebrate them. Most importantly, VFR reminds us that WE ALL BELONG. Viva VFR!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.brithammer.com/" target="_blank">Brit Hammer</a> on 12.23.10 at 5:10</div>
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<p>Mark, that was a great article that highlights one of the best community radio stations in the Pioneer Valley.</p>
<p>I was particularly interested to hear your amusing account about being a guest on the Mo Show that struck a cord with me. I was a guest on her show when I was promoting my new book, Art from Intuition and, in a manner of speaking, I showed up late as well.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a longtime friend and admirer of the lovable Ms Mo, and I know firsthand the wit and humor that made her show appealing to so many listeners. Of course, Mo’s painterly gesture in snug-fitting jeans, grace the front of my book as well, and I thought this is a natural way for us to “Talk Radio” together, but it didn’t quite come together as I hoped.</p>
<p>Knowing my reputation for non-punctuality, Mo was at my door bright and early offering a firm, “Get in, we’ve got to go!” as a counter to my offering – “I made us some coffee” greeting. And though it was sleeting out and very slippery, a determined Mo put her pedal-to-the-metal, frantically driving around the cautious wimps heeding the speed limit that day.</p>
<p>Upon arriving, I kind of remember some confusion about the key to the studio missing and problems with an amplifier or tapes not working that got me pretty nervous. Though Mo was a bit agitated, she calmly got it all together minutes before we went on the air, and all of a sudden we were live!</p>
<p>“Hi, this is the Mo Show with my guest, Dean Nimmer!” And like a deer in the headlights, I exclaimed something like, “Hi to you too, too!” and we were off to a – Did I just say that? – radio broadcast. Mo tried to get me at ease with some small talk about the weather and hellos to friends that might be listening but I completely froze up when we got into discussing my art and book. It wasn’t Mo’s fault, but I just couldn’t be spontaneous or funny talking about this book that took me 5-years to write and I probably talked more about how much I liked the book’s cover than I did about what’s between the pages. It took a bunch of Mo’s prodding me during a Van Morrison record break to get the message &#8211; “C’mon, lighten up!”- that may have salvaged the last half of the interview – i.e. I was a half hour late in arriving too.</p>
<p>Given that awkward debut, I’m probably not headed to replace Larry King, but I now fully appreciate the fact that Mo (Ringey) Gareau is a terrific radio host, and her Benign Girl blog showcases her exceptional talents as a writer to boot.</p>
<p>So, Go Mo, GO!</p>
<p>Dean Nimmer</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.artfromintuition.com/" target="_blank">Dean Nimmer</a> on 12.23.10 at 15:12</div>
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<p>Brit,</p>
<p>Beacuse you did not mention that you appeared on my show from Rotterdam via skype, to discuss your book, &#8220;<strong><em><span class="caps">MOSAIC: <span class="caps">FINDING YOUR OWN VOICE&#8221;</span></span></em></strong>,I will give you a plug and a link &#8212;- &gt; Brit is a fabulous artist and author who has written many books about the art of Mosaics, as well as feature articles for such magazines as New England Home Magazine. The book she discussed on my show can be found at http://www.brithammer.com/mosaic/</p>
<p>And thanks Dean, especially for not mentioning that the jeans on your book cover &#8212; at www.artfromintuition.com were held together by duct tape. And you were NOT a bad guest. I thought your deer-in-headlights persona was entertainingly comedic.</p>
<p>:-D</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.23.10 at 16:00</div>
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<p>Although I&#8217;ve been in the Valley 10 years now, I must sheepishly admit that I&#8217;ve never tuned in to Valley Free Radio. I&#8217;m just not a radiohead. But I&#8217;m not a podcast-listening I-Podder, either. I&#8217;m one of those increasingly rare specimens who gets most all of my info visually: reading. That said, after reading your article in this week&#8217;s Advocate, Mark, I&#8217;m actually going to make a point to tune in. Communication which is not beholden to commerce counts way high in my book!</p>
<p>And I must put in my two cents about the Mo Show &#8212; it is indeed a loss to know that Mo has been forced to fold her show, even tho&#8217; I&#8217;ve never heard it. I first learned about the phenomenon that is Mo thru&#8217; the weekly arts listings e-newsletter that she started (now passed on to other capable hands and renamed The Valley Arts Newsletter). Her passion for and dedication to promoting arts and culture in the Valley, over many years, with great organizational talent, wordsmithing extraordinaire, and an ability to link ideas and people have been a great gift beyond measure. i&#8217;ve been thankful that she has maintained her blog, which I relish, even while needing to let other things go.</p>
<p>I look forward to tuning in to VFR and getting to know other local luminaries who undoubtedly have wonderful gifts of their own that they are able to share thanks to the VFR platform. Thanks all, for your passion, creativity and voices! You&#8217;re part of what makes the Valley great!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.sarahblissart.com/" target="_blank">Sarah Bliss</a> on 12.23.10 at 20:36</div>
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<p>Mo rocks and she does make each person she touches feel special. She approaches her guests with admiration, and sincere curiosity about their accomplishments and opinions. In fact, I&#8217;ll bet her interviewees leave feeling eager and able to leap higher and higher as a result of Mo&#8217;s enthusiasm.</p>
<p>Her quirky wit is what I most admire. She looks at things as if she were standing on her head, so they come into focus in a new and unique way. Witty, iconoclastic, and really tuned in. The only thing I enjoy more than hearing her show is reading her blog. And if I don&#8217;t respond, it&#8217;s because I can&#8217;t do it as well as she does. Mo, I don&#8217;t have the time to blog, twitter, chirp, or do the networking that keeps you in the loop of so many talented and loopy people. But, I hope you&#8217;ll keep those of us who are bogged down very blogged up. Your take on it all is a sublime treat, like chocolate with grappa inside.</p>
<div class="who">Posted by anne burton on 12.26.10 at 20:55</div>
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<p>I had the opportunity to be part of Mo&#8217;s show twice, and enjoyed both despite being afraid of a microphone! Mo has the ability to make you confortable, is witty and sharp, asks the right questions even though she may get the wrong answers! She is fun to work with and from the other side, entertaining and informative to read or listen to. More Mo!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Jean-Pierre Pasche on 12.27.10 at 11:39</div>
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<p>Thanks all of you for your comments. After a very long hiatus due to my italic spine, I fully intend to start blogging again soon! :-D</p>
<p>And the reason my show was so fun is because I have crazy luck and meet the most amazing people and have a knack for convincing said most amazing people to come on air and trust me that it will be fun and that, &#8220;no one is listening anyway&#8230;&#8221;. In fact, to make it less terrifying for me and my guests, I never turned on the lights in the broadcast studio bc somehow, sitting there in the dim light from the basement transom, it seemed more like play and less like being live. :-)</p>
<p>y&#8217;all are so damn lovable! I am a very lucky person indeed!</p>
<p>xxxoooo all!</p>
<div class="who">Posted by <a style="color:#999999;" href="http://www.benigngirl.com/" target="_blank">Mo Gareau</a> on 12.27.10 at 14:37</div>
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<p>If your president ever finds the way to your excellent article, he will certainly sign, to make such a creative radio experience spread all over the country! Thank&#8217;s for telling us, foreigners, how real people in the USA can be free and live their own way, far from the stereotypes so commonly shown by the news and the (de)press. Anyhow, please congratulate Mo &amp; Co for their work -even if I can&#8217;t listen to their radio (Switzerland is really almost another world).</p>
<div class="who">Posted by Claudia Mendoza on 12.29.10 at 20:14</div>
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<p>Wow, I only just got to reading the article in the advocate and these fabulous posts. Mo is truly amazing, it was a gas being a guest on her show, I hope she&#8217;ll invite me again and we&#8217;ll rattle more than just paper. Mark&#8217;s article took me back, i often wish I had a transistor like I did at 12 years old, and would listen continuously, especially under my pillow. I love the randomness of listening to live radio and spend my 45 min daily commute wandering across the dials. Mark Roessler&#8217;s description of Mo&#8217;s interviewing style reminded me of Diane Arbus&#8217; photographing style: relax your subject, reach in for the real stuff and make it shine. What Diane did visually, Mo does with words, but with gleeful fun and fast-thinking intelligence. Mo is a wizard, and I hope she keeps writing, I&#8217;ll be tuning in.</p>
<p>Happy New Year-to good things</p>
<div class="who">Posted by sheryl on 12.31.10 at 17:53</div>
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